Benjamin Grover

Benjamin Grover[1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29]

Male 1722 - 1769  (47 years)


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  • Name Benjamin Grover  [7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29
    Birth 1722  Killingly, Windham, Connecticut Colony, British Colonial America Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Christening 06 May 1722  Killingly, Windham, Connecticut Colony, British Colonial America Find all individuals with events at this location  [6
    Gender Male 
    Death Jul 1769  Coventry, Tolland, Connecticut, United States Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Person ID I312684224859  Oswald Genealogy
    Last Modified 15 Jun 2025 

    Family Mary Barrett,   c. Killingly, Windham, Connecticut, United States Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Marriage 18 May 1742  Killingly, Windham, Connecticut, United States Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Family ID F1137  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 15 Jun 2025 

  • Notes 
    • !BIRTH/MARRIAGE/DEATH: Killingley, Windh
      !BIRTH/MARRIAGE/DEATH: Killingley, Windham Co, CT, Deeds; Killingley, Windham Co, CT, Congregational Church Records; "Ancestry and Genealogy of our Thomas Grover Family," by Joel P. Grover, Enlarged and Revised, 1966-7, published by compiler;

      Benjamin Grover
      There seems to be another Benjamin Grover who was born in 1704 in Woburn, Middlesex, Massachusetts whose data and information was mixed up with Benjamin Grover born in 1722 in Killingly, Windham, CT.

      The former, born in Massachusetts was apparently married to a Mary Shailer and also to a Mary Milbury. With so many "Marys" it's definitely confusing.

      I changed the birthdate of the Benjamin Grover (KG8T-BVS) to 1722 and birthplace to Killingly, Windham, Connecticut because this Benjamin had the same temple dates as shown on my original family group sheet. But research needs to be done to add the other Benjamin Grover born in Massachusetts and to delete or connect Sources to right persons.

      Hope I didn't upset anyone; just trying to clean up what seemed to be a bit of a mess. Evidently the two Benjamins got combined somewhere along the line. There is probably room for discussion and more digging to make this more accurate with additional information. I'm certainly open to be persuaded otherwise with additional information.

      Births, Marriages, and Deaths of Coventr
      Births, Marriages, and Deaths of Coventry Connecticut 1711-1844, Taken from the records of the town and churches by Susan Whitney Dimock, New York, The Baker & Taylor Co. 5 and 7 Sixteenth Street. 1897, Pg 51

      Mary
      Benjamin Grover did not marry this Mary (Shailer). He may have married a Mary but not this one. This Mary was married to Noah Emery and then Thomas Stearns. Please remove.

      response: I agree. I removed her and replaced her with Mary Barrett, the original wife shown as the wife of Benjamin Grover who was born in 1722. They were sealed on 20 March 1964 in Salt Lake Temple.

  • Sources 
    1. [S1173462465] FamilySearch.org, FamilySearch FamilyTree, "Connecticut, Births and Christenings, 1649-1906", , FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:F77V-BH6 : 7 January 2020), Benjamin Grover in entry for Naomy Grover, 1733.

    2. [S1173462465] FamilySearch.org, FamilySearch FamilyTree, "Connecticut, Births and Christenings, 1649-1906", , FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:F77V-B4N : 7 January 2020), Benjamin Grover in entry for Elisabeth Grover, 1737.

    3. [S1173462465] FamilySearch.org, FamilySearch FamilyTree, "Connecticut, Births and Christenings, 1649-1906", database, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:F77V-BHR : 7 January 2020), Benjamin Grover in entry for Sarah Grover, 1735.

    4. [S1173462465] FamilySearch.org, FamilySearch FamilyTree, "Connecticut, Births and Christenings, 1649-1906", , FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:F77V-BHK : 7 January 2020), Benjamin Grover in entry for Sibel Grover, 1741.

    5. [S1173462465] FamilySearch.org, FamilySearch FamilyTree, "Connecticut, Births and Christenings, 1649-1906", , FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:F77V-YBP : 7 January 2020), Benjamin Grover in entry for Mary Grover, 1729.

    6. [S1173462465] FamilySearch.org, FamilySearch FamilyTree, "Ancestry.com - Connecticut, Church Record Abstracts, 1630-1920." Ancestry.com - Connecticut, Church Record Abstracts, 1630-1920. N.p., n.d. Web. 21 Sep. 2014..

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    8. [S1173462611] FamilySearch.org, Connecticut, Vital Records, Prior to 1850, "Connecticut, Vital Records, Prior to 1850", FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:QPSC-NDYZ : Sun Mar 10 11:18:29 UTC 2024), Entry for Sible Grover and Benjamin, 6 May 1741.

    9. [S1173462611] FamilySearch.org, Connecticut, Vital Records, Prior to 1850, "Connecticut, Vital Records, Prior to 1850", FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:QPSC-NDY4 : Sun Mar 10 01:36:40 UTC 2024), Entry for Susannah Grover and Benjamin, 2 April 1732.

    10. [S1173462611] FamilySearch.org, Connecticut, Vital Records, Prior to 1850, "Connecticut, Vital Records, Prior to 1850", FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:78XV-VS2M : Sat Mar 09 02:52:17 UTC 2024), Entry for Benjamin Grover and Mary Shailler, 6 June 1728.

    11. [S1173462611] FamilySearch.org, Connecticut, Vital Records, Prior to 1850, "Connecticut, Vital Records, Prior to 1850", FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:78XJ-MR6Z : Sun Mar 10 02:48:10 UTC 2024), Entry for Mary Shailler and Benjamin Grover, 6 June 1728.

    12. [S1173462611] FamilySearch.org, Connecticut, Vital Records, Prior to 1850, "Connecticut, Vital Records, Prior to 1850", FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:QP7B-HFCM : Thu Mar 07 07:13:32 UTC 2024), Entry for Mary Grover and Benjamin, 26 April 1729.

    13. [S1173462611] FamilySearch.org, Connecticut, Vital Records, Prior to 1850, "Connecticut, Vital Records, Prior to 1850", FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:QP7B-G2L6 : Sat Mar 09 05:04:56 UTC 2024), Entry for Elisabeth Grover and Benjamin, 14 November 1737.

    14. [S1173462611] FamilySearch.org, Connecticut, Vital Records, Prior to 1850, "Connecticut, Vital Records, Prior to 1850", FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:QPQH-1LS2 : Sat Mar 09 11:49:25 UTC 2024), Entry for Naomy Grover and Benjamin Grover, 3 March 1733.

    15. [S1173462611] FamilySearch.org, Connecticut, Vital Records, Prior to 1850, "Connecticut, Vital Records, Prior to 1850", FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:78XV-LDT2 : Sun Mar 10 16:57:14 UTC 2024), Entry for Sarah Grover and Benjamin, 1 July 1735.

    16. [S1173462611] FamilySearch.org, Connecticut, Vital Records, Prior to 1850, "Connecticut, Vital Records, Prior to 1850", FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:78XV-VST2 : Sat Mar 09 00:49:41 UTC 2024), Entry for Benjamin Grover and Benjamin, 22 September 1750.

    17. [S1173462611] FamilySearch.org, Connecticut, Vital Records, Prior to 1850, "Connecticut, Vital Records, Prior to 1850", FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:QP7B-HFC3 : Fri Mar 08 15:32:39 UTC 2024), Entry for Mary Grover and Benjamin, 20 December 1739.

    18. [S1173462611] FamilySearch.org, Connecticut, Vital Records, Prior to 1850, "Connecticut, Vital Records, Prior to 1850", FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:78XV-L6N2 : Sun Mar 10 23:38:41 UTC 2024), Entry for Sarah Grover and Benjamin, 28 December 1739.

    19. [S1173462611] FamilySearch.org, Connecticut, Vital Records, Prior to 1850, "Connecticut, Vital Records, Prior to 1850", FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:78XV-LNZM : Sat Mar 09 01:57:14 UTC 2024), Entry for Sibel Grover and Benjamin, 5 December 1761.

    20. [S1173462633] FamilySearch.org, Connecticut, Births and Christenings, 1649-1906, "Connecticut, Births and Christenings, 1649-1906", database, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:F749-S2P : 7 January 2020), Benjamin Grover in entry for Benjamin Grover, 1750.

    21. [S1173462633] FamilySearch.org, Connecticut, Births and Christenings, 1649-1906, "Connecticut, Births and Christenings, 1649-1906", , FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:F749-S2P : 7 January 2020), Benjamin Grover in entry for Benjamin Grover, 1750.

    22. [S1173462633] FamilySearch.org, Connecticut, Births and Christenings, 1649-1906, "Connecticut, Births and Christenings, 1649-1906", , FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:4VPY-VG3Z : 7 January 2020), Benjamin Grover in entry for Susannah Grover, 1732.

    23. [S1173462739] FamilySearch.org, Connecticut, Deaths and Burials, 1772-1934, "Connecticut, Deaths and Burials, 1772-1934", , FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:H3H8-S72M : 16 January 2020), Benjamin Grover in entry for Sarah Grover, 1739.

    24. [S1173462739] FamilySearch.org, Connecticut, Deaths and Burials, 1772-1934, "Connecticut, Deaths and Burials, 1772-1934", , FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:H3H8-S7W2 : 16 January 2020), Benjamin Grover in entry for Mary Grover, 1739.

    25. [S1173462739] FamilySearch.org, Connecticut, Deaths and Burials, 1772-1934, "Connecticut, Deaths and Burials, 1772-1934", , FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:H3H8-SW3Z : 16 January 2020), Benjamin Grover in entry for Elisabeth Grover, 1739.

    26. [S1173462739] FamilySearch.org, Connecticut, Deaths and Burials, 1772-1934, "Connecticut, Deaths and Burials, 1772-1934", , FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:H3H8-SWN2 : 16 January 2020), Benjamin Grover in entry for Mary Grover, 1743.

    27. [S1173462739] FamilySearch.org, Connecticut, Deaths and Burials, 1772-1934, "Connecticut, Deaths and Burials, 1772-1934", , FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:H3HC-Q46Z : 16 January 2020), Benjamin Grover in entry for Mary Grover, 1764.

    28. [S1173462739] FamilySearch.org, Connecticut, Deaths and Burials, 1772-1934, "Connecticut, Deaths and Burials, 1772-1934", , FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:H3HC-Q4MM : 16 January 2020), Benjamin Grover in entry for Sibel Grover, 1761.

    29. [S1173462760] FamilySearch.org, Connecticut, Marriages, 1630-1997, "Connecticut, Marriages, 1630-1997", , FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:H963-J8T2 : 11 January 2020), Benjamin Grover, 1728.